My dad is dating my teacher
But there are always going to be relationships and situations in your life where acting on those feelings is just not right.
As a teacher, he should be helping you learn and understand those boundaries, but instead he's crossing those boundaries himself.
And, YOU’RE definitely not the one dating her, so they can’t say you’re in love with her (that was supposed to be a joke, by the way.
🙂 They might express shock – “OMG, your dad is dating your teacher!?!?! ” I think this is one of those situations where if YOU act like it’s a big, embarrassing deal, that’s what it’ll be.
Chances are very high that you're not the first student he's hit on, and I'm sure you won't be the last.
Another girl--who isn't smart enough to question his behavior like you are doing--might get involved with him and potentially become really messed up by it.
But, maybe she’s crushing too hard on your dad to think straight too. Then you could stop thinking about her as “your teacher.” Right now, the idea of spending MORE time with her probably sounds like terrible advice. Maybe you two could hang out for an afternoon without your dad around.
(Sorry, I’m sure that’s weird.) So look, you can’t change how they act. Then you won’t have the dynamic of their googly eyes making things weird, and you can concentrate on getting to know what she’s like outside of school.
But it's completely inappropriate for him to pursue an emotional relationship that goes beyond the student-teacher level, and it's illegal for him to have a sexual relationship with you.
(Even though he's not "technically" your teacher, he's still representing the school as a teacher, and, of course, you are a student.)So for starters, this guy has pretty bad judgment for putting his job and reputation on the line like this.
If you’re the one who brings it up, that’ll take even more of the power out of it, I think.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating